As much as I love my idyllic Mokum, I have to admit to being a sucker for a spontaneous hopping on a train and ending up somewhere semi-exotic. One lazy weekend this past summer, it was Antwerp Centraal. After a scenic stroll through the medieval streets and a delicious lunch, I thought my Belgian mini-escape would not be complete without something gay and dirty. And so the destination of the afternoon became sauna 't Herenhuis.

Having impressed the friendly staff with my conversational Dutch, wearing a towel around my private parts, I went ahead to explore the dimmed interiors of the place. The big room with beds had a couple of interesting characters, which I ceased the opportunity to play with for a short while when I noticed something that concerned me: I struggled to keep my dick hard! Was it because of so much walking or was it them going too rough, too fast, without any feelings or attention? 

So having accepted that it was as good as it would get for me south of the border that day, I went downstairs to relax in the hot tub. It was when just began to unwind my tense body that I saw a cute Mediterranean face sticking out of the bubbling water and checking me out. After some underwater foot-to-foot and hand-to-dick stroking action, we went upstairs to make it more private. What continued was an amazing and sensual experience.....


January 1, 2016


When we score a hot person, be it outside or inside the bedroom, there is nothing unusual about wanting to impress them with the best moves we’ve got! It’s always fun during the play to not only observe the partner’s reaction but also to discover your own talents as you experiment to make it more interesting. And yet since showing your inventiveness is mostly ...


In a great saying “happiness is a journey, not a destination,” I would replace “happiness” with “pleasure” when I talk specifically about the naked body-to-body activity! When we get down to the dirty business of sex, it is supposed that the goal of the whole affair, after covering all the bases, is the big finish at the end. And although orgasm is indeed ...


Friday night. Club Church. (Z)onderbroek ("no pants") party. Mezzanine area. I’m leaning against the mirror wall of a busy upstairs, watching others go at it on benches, slings and couches. I make an eye contact with a handsome thirtysomething, who is slowly moving in my direction. A few gropes and smooches later, I complete a 180-degree ...


It is always exciting when you meet someone and it clicks just right that you know that sex is bound to happen. The confidence the person radiates while flirting tends to build a certain picture in your head that things will go just as sizzling hot after you cross the border from dressed to naked. And although it takes two to waltz, as half of the work technically depends on ...


Based on Gay Sex in the City column from Gay&Night magazine, published in Netherlands and  Belgium and the blog entries, the e-book is available for download on Amazon, AppleBooks, Kobo and Barnes and Noble


Misha M is a columnist and an author. In the blog he shares his sexual adventures, the lessons that he learns and the suggestions he has to give

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"rough" and "hard" is synonymous to "good sex" to a lot of people.