It is remarkable how, since I moved to Amsterdam three years ago, I witnessed the closures of several gay places I had grown to like. Whether it’s poor business management or bad city policies, I will not sit and cry about it! Instead, I will take this opportunity to go and explore beyond our former gay Mecca. And I am glad that I do, because how else would I have found out about Steamworks in Arnhem? The huge four-storey sauna in the east of the country attracts visitors from Groningen to Limburg, from Germany to. . . Amsterdam: incidentally, I was not the only one from the capital visiting that afternoon!

 

A good-looking surprise entered the showers while I was cleansing myself before going to relax in the hammam. Having recognized the guy’s face after a brief acquaintance several months back – without clothes he looked as good as I had imagined him – I struck a flirty conversation! It was a matter of several minutes before we found each other again in the spacious play area. The passion with which he ripped my towel off and started tonguing me showed much promise before he flipped his legs into the air.....

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December 14, 2016

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