It is always exciting when you meet someone and it clicks just right that you know that sex is bound to happen. The confidence the person radiates while flirting tends to build a certain picture in your head that things will go just as sizzling hot after you cross the border from dressed to naked. And although it takes two to waltz, as half of the work technically depends on you, it’s always a bummer to realize, time and again, that expectation is the mother of disappointment.
Whichever sex role you choose to play, unfortunately you are never guaranteed against being stuck with a freshly deflowered teenager who was this smart and confident man whose act you have just bought before things got down and dirty. It ceases to be sexy seeing him try to “impress” you with every possible, but mostly impossible, position in the first two minutes of the intercourse. Both dick and ass can equally well turn from the instruments of pleasure into the instruments of torture when their clueless owners break the sequence harmony by switching the positions and the thrusting rhythm every ten seconds.....
CHANGE OF RHYTHM
May 1, 2016
Giving vs. receiving, domination vs. submission, active vs. passive, whatever you like to call this form of interaction, will always be part of the physical intimacy. And since everyone has his own idea of either role, things might get a bit complicated as many people tend to reveal their interpretations at the most unguarded moment. Which is of a particular concern for those...
Friday night. Club Church. (Z)onderbroek ("no pants") party. Mezzanine area. I’m leaning against the mirror wall of a busy upstairs, watching others go at it on benches, slings and couches. I make an eye contact with a handsome thirtysomething, who is slowly moving in my direction. A few gropes and smooches later, I complete a 180-degree turn ...
TIPS FOR TOPS
When we say “active” or “passive,” inadvertently do we mean “top” or “bottom,” respectively. Without always thinking that a bottom can also play the active version of his role and take charge, many assume that it’s exclusively up to the top to make the experience pleasant. Whether giving a break to the hard working top or simply preferring the “cowboy” or “reverse cowboy” positions ...
Of the sexual practices that fall into the category of “kink” (things involving a bit more than fucking and sucking), in my experience, the pleasurable pain still seems to be a poorly explored territory by many. The wide array of the sex shop merchandise in De Wallen had a sales boost, I’m sure, after that silly Fifty Shades movie. But the unfortunate is now ...
HIT IT RIGHT!
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Misha M is a columnist and an author. In the blog he shares his sexual adventures, the lessons that he learns and the suggestions he has to give
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both dick and ass can equally well turn from the instruments of pleasure into the instruments of torture