Every time the Almighty graces the Low Countries with a warm and sunny weather, I like to take advantage of it, especially towards the summer’s end, on the sands of Zandvoort beach. After a relaxing day at the North Sea shore one late-August weekend, I strolled back to the train station through the cruisy dunes to see what happens on the way. Sure enough, something promising appeared on the hilly horizon. The closer the guy approached, the higher grade he was getting. Not in the mood for hooking up in public, after a short introductory conversation, I suggested that we keep in touch.

A couple weeks and several texts later, the beautiful scruffy Moroccan in his mid-thirties came over to my Nieuw-West studio to take our acquaintance further. He was not fully versed in Dutch or English, so we swiftly broke our language barrier by moving on from the verbal contact to the physical one. As soon as his lips approached mine, a sudden stench of rancid breath has immediately put me off from any tongue-to-tongue action. Too good-looking to give up on, I pulled his t-shirt off to worship his well-trained hairy torso with my lips.....



November 1, 2015


59 percent of men worldwide have ended a sexual relationship because their partner was a bad kisser, or so research says, meaning it outweighs all other intimate factors combined! A scary statistic, but one that makes perfect sense to me. Unfortunately, I’ve frequently experienced that people manage to turn this sweet and simple, but sexy act into something downright ...


The Low Countries, the best place to realize some of the wildest man-on-man fantasies. The fact that the Netherlands and Belgium are the pioneers of the same-sex marriage leads one to conclude how comfortable it is to be who you are and do what you want in this geographic area. 


For me personally, ...


It is the rule of thumb that we always want to present our best when going on a date. Clean clothes, clean shoes, trimmed nails, trimmed nose hair, refreshed breath, armpits and genitals are the advisable basics to keep in mind! Some guys unfortunately go a little too easy on one or more of the above-mentioned items, while others obsess with the idea of being perfect. We are all different, yes, ...


Giving vs. receiving, domination vs. submission, active vs. passive, whatever you like to call this form of interaction, will always be part of the physical intimacy. And since everyone has his own idea of either role, things might get a bit complicated as many people tend to reveal their interpretations at the most unguarded moment. Which is of a particular concern ...


Based on Gay Sex in the City column from Gay&Night magazine, published in Netherlands and  Belgium and the blog entries, the e-book is available for download on Amazon, AppleBooks, Kobo and Barnes and Noble


Misha M is a columnist and an author. In the blog he shares his sexual adventures, the lessons that he learns and the suggestions he has to give

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