Drugs have been around for as long as we have been around and it is no secret that sex is a common situation where people resort to various stimulants to elevate the experience. I will not reveal anything new by mentioning that upon inhaling or ingesting certain substances, the sweetness of the intercourse multiplies: the smells get stronger, the motions feel longer, you become more susceptible to the slightest physical contact. Speaking from my own experience however, I must admit how easy it is to get lost in pleasure and transition to the point of losing control of yourself.


Particularly horny, a couple years ago, one afternoon, I decided to stop by one of my favorite cruising bars in town, The Cuckoo’s Nest. After smoking a full pure joint at a nearby coffee shop, ready for action I descended into the dark room area. I was not disappointed that particular afternoon as the place was swarming with sexy guys. Or was that the weed talking? Having pleasured myself both orally and anally several times in the private cabins, I still was not satisfied and continued on cruising...


January 5, 2017


Have you ever found yourself in a sexual encounter where one party works his ass off, or any other body part for that matter, and the other just sits there and enjoys the ride giving little to nothing in return? Now don’t get me wrong, this can be extremely hot and dandy if both parties agree beforehand on some sort of a master-slave role play, where one serves the other. 


It insults my intelligence to know that yearly 1,000 people contract HIV in a country first to let gays marry, sex workers work legally and drugs be sold in stores. It was equally as baffling to have been told by GGD, the Dutch health department, that the PrEP trial reserve list was so long that it made no sense to get on it. An HIV-negative male...


Every time the Almighty graces the Low Countries with a warm and sunny weather, I like to take advantage of it, especially towards the summer’s end, on the sands of Zandvoort beach. After a relaxing day at the North Sea shore one late-August weekend, I strolled back to the train station through the cruisy dunes to see what happens on the way. 


Many complain about their looks but none about their brains! 

I had to suppress my laughter recently when a cute guy I made out with said to me that his arms could never grow as big as mine. Far from being a bodybuilder type, and neither do I strive to be, I have to say that about half a decade ago I had the same kind of ...


Based on Gay Sex in the City column from Gay&Night magazine, published in Netherlands and  Belgium and the blog entries, the e-book is available for download on GooglePlay, AppleBooks, Kobo, Barnes & Noble and more


Misha M is a columnist and an author. In the blog he shares his sexual adventures, the lessons that he learns and the suggestions he has to give

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