It was one of those warm lazy summer days that I decided to skip the social activities and play it low key around my green and quiet Amsterdam West. Having spontaneously logged on to Scruff, I got a few “woofs,” one of which looked attractive with his face, stats and the unlocked private album. Having explicitly agreed as to who was “into” what, we decided to go ahead with my coming over to his place.

The sexy in-shape daddy type was smart and funny as we were flirting and drinking on his balcony. One thing lead to another as I have found myself au naturel in his bed sheets. Having enjoyed a passionate mutual foreplay of kissing, sucking and rimming each other for a good half-hour, it was the time to move to the next step, as I was to take the charge of opening his rear entry. A patient and smooth top that I am, I took the task seriously, as I actually liked the guy. Little by little, feeling his warmth from the inside, smelling his mansweat, rubbing my sensitive body against his, it was absolutely the last thing in the universe that I expected to hear, and yet it came: “I just got out of a seven-year old relationship and I don’t usually fuck on the first date, so go on but slowly!”......


September 1, 2015


Sex can be both good and bad for you. Good, if you do it right: a boost in mood, restful sleep afterwards, a more-or-less lasting relationship. Bad, if you don’t: unpleasantly painful experience, embarrassing accidents, a disease! Sometimes it’s a matter of knowing what you are doing. And yet most of the time it’s about wanting to know what, or whom, ...


It is remarkable how, since I moved to Amsterdam three years ago, I witnessed the closures of several gay places I had grown to like. Whether it’s poor business management or bad city policies, I will not sit and cry about it! Instead, I will take this opportunity to go and explore beyond our former gay Mecca. And I am glad that I do, because how else would ...


It’s been said that there are no two people with the same handwriting, same fingerprints or same personality. And if that is true, then the chances that you will find someone who will one hundred percent match all of your sexual desires are nil! Read: he will always be into something you’re not into, and vice versa! Not talking radical stuff like extreme pain, ...


As much as I love my idyllic Mokum, I have to admit to being a sucker for a spontaneous hopping on a train and ending up somewhere semi-exotic. One lazy weekend this past summer, it was Antwerp Centraal. After a scenic stroll through the medieval streets and a delicious lunch, I thought my Belgian mini-escape would not be complete without ...


Based on Gay Sex in the City column from Gay&Night magazine, published in Netherlands and  Belgium and the blog entries, the e-book is available for download on Amazon, AppleBooks, Kobo and Barnes and Noble


Misha M is a columnist and an author. In the blog he shares his sexual adventures, the lessons that he learns and the suggestions he has to give

Read it in full in The Diary of a Horny Man,

available for download by clicking below

Dirty words are the only ones that belong in bed, for they do not belong anywhere else