An amazing Scandinavian drama, like they usually are, The Hunt about a man wrongfully accused of molesting a child has received numerous accolades around the world. A kindergartener invents a story about the teacher she has a crush on, and as a result, the life of an innocent man turns into an enduring hell he ends up going through living in a small community where everyone knows everyone. 

Very few things are more disgusting to me than unsolicited sexual propositions to someone in no physical or mental state to reciprocate. And yet since “coming of age” as defined by law does not necessarily correspond to the actual coming of age on an individual basis, things can really go south for the victim if the actual predator is not the one you think.


An uncomfortable occurrence of sorts has taken place once during a trip to Montreal – a favorite foreign getaway while I lived in the States. As European as you can get in North America, the biggest French-Canadian city has a great nightlife, and Cabaret Mado was one place I thought fun to visit. Famous for its elaborate drag performances, the place turns into a busy pop music dance club after the shows are over! Buzzed but not drunk, I was approached by a beautiful young man to share the fun and dance with. Somewhere between Aretha Franklin and Cher, the guy advanced further in my direction and started kissing me....


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July 14, 2017

things can go south for the victim if the actual predator is not the one you think


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Based on Gay Sex in the City column from Gay&Night magazine, published in Netherlands and  Belgium and the blog entries, the e-book is available for download on GooglePlay, AppleBooks, Kobo, Barnes & Noble and more


Misha M is a columnist and an author. In the blog he shares his sexual adventures, the lessons that he learns and the suggestions he has to give

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