Many complain about their looks but none about their brains! 

I had to suppress my laughter recently when a cute guy I made out with said to me that his arms could never grow as big as mine. Far from being a bodybuilder type, and neither do I strive to be, I have to say that about half a decade ago I had the same kind of thinking when I saw some muscle boy walking on a street, dancing in a club or training in a gym. With some extra baby fat on my face, chest and waist (courtesy of one too many Starbucks frappuccinos) that I couldn’t lose to save my life, I still thought twice before making the self-depreciating “I can’t” statements. Blessed with both good physical and, hopefully, good mental health I couldn’t settle with how I had knowing that it shouldn’t be rocket science to be able to get into a better shape! 

The innumerable amount of different workout routines and dietary advices with pictures of hot guys everyone wants to fuck can surely point you in the right direction. And yet every author of such articles perfectly understands that none of his suggestions is worth anything without the good old-fashioned boring, impossible, disgusting concept of. . . discipline! 

 

No, I am not talking about one month of gym and the next month of the gym sauna. I am not talking about two days a week of deadlifts and treadmill and the rest of the time beer and fries. And neither am I talking about killing yourself with long and heavy exercising every day. What I am referring to is simply switching your brain and slightly (!) modifying the way you live. Yes, it sounds big and dramatic, and yet the results in the end are also big and dramatic!

Look! I had sizzling hot sex with most types one can name: from skinny smooth twinks to stocky furry bears, and a lot in between! And with every assurance I must say that no amount of muscle will substitute a man’s inner confidence and genuine charm! It is not uncommon after all to see two “visually mismatched” people together – they don’t give a fuck what you think, they have hot sex! Which only goes to show that any body type has a market. Whom I am addressing, however, is those who whine endlessly about the way they look, how they “try” to work out, how they “try” to eat healthy. Instead of trying you should be doing. Instead of doing it tomorrow, do it today!

THE GYM

September 1, 2016

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it sounds big and dramatic, and yet the results in the end are also big and dramatic